Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Gift Guide: What's on My List

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Dear Santa - please accept the following list of wishes, some extravagant and some practical that make up my list this year. Many of these are repeats, products I own, love and need a refresh on. Others are things I've had my eye on for a while and am convinced that I need. Maybe you or the people on your list need them too.


Because I've gotten a ton of mileage out of my smaller black cross-body bag and would love to have an alternate option for when I'm not in my customary monochrome. Multiple tough decisions here though (color? monogram? stripes?) - good news is they all appear to be gorgeous and you can preview your custom creation on the website. Meadow Double Zip Camera Bag from Leatherology. 

Because although there is no shortage of adorable pom poms, ribbed trims and sparkles in the beanie market right now, I always reach for the most simple option in the drawer, and have been missing a classic since I misplaced it last year. Slouchy Cashmere Beanie from Nordstroms.

Because I love cooking with spice blends, and have been fascinated with La Boîte since reading about master-blender Lior in Bon Appetit years ago. This small discovery set of their top blends is a great way to find a new favorite. Mini 5 Spice Set from La Boîte. 


Because I'm a big butter fan - as my parents can attest from my childhood proclivities for eating it by the bar. Soft butter is just so much better than cold butter, but there's no way we can (or should) eat an entire bar before it starts to get gross on the counter. This little keeper ensures butter stays fresh, and soft for much longer in a very attractive package. Corian and Stoneware Butter Keeper from Food 52.


Because I've heard so many great things about this cookbook and I love following its delightfully witty and relatable author on Instagram. Dining In by Alison Roman available on Amazon. I also flipped through The Magnolia Table Cookbook while at my friend's house last week and found it to be totally inspiring - and Food 52's Genius Recipes has been on my list forever.
Because I left mine on an airplane and cannot bear the thought of another red-eye without it. The best eye mask ever made, long live the eye bra. Nidra Deep Rest Sleep Mask available on Amazon.


Because my shampoo is infinitely better than what they have at the Hampton Inn, but refillable bottles are usually bulky and leaky. These aren't. FlatPak Toiletry Bottles from Matador.

Because above eye mask or not - adjusting to new time zones seems to only be getting harder, and anything is worth a try. Plant Alchemy Jet Lag from the Alchemist's Kitchen.


Finally on the traveling front - because my cord situation is always a disaster made worse by international adaptors. Cable Kit from Aer - although let's be honest, this is what I really want.


Because chili oil!! It's delicious on everything and I'm super excited about this series from Hot Mama's out of Portland that not only includes a Guajillo (my favorite) chile oil, but also a coffee chile oil. Chile Oil Variety Pack from Hot Mama's.

Because the glove/mitten hybrid is a wonderful thing, and this is a beautiful pair. Classic Glittens from Echo.
Because 2019 is going to be the year I finally drink enough water - and maybe having this bottle blinking at me on my desk will be the thing to help me do it. Hidrate Spark Bottle (also on Amazon).

Because it's the very best, but it's a splurge for something that you can buy in the grocery store check out stand, and I'm all out. Sugar Lip Treatment by Fresh available at Sephora.

Because I am totally obsessed with the Nespresso machine I bought D as a gift earlier this year (I definitely use it more than he does) and I love the idea of these little espresso cups, whether for drinking shots straight or using to transfer the shot from the machine to my latte. I adore the beautiful glaze colors from Australian ceramicist Mud above (also their Paris Platter is a thing of dreams) but also love this riff on the classic French picardie glass or this simple set, both from Food 52. 
Because it's basically my uniform, and there was an unfortunate sharpie incident that did in my favorite white shirt. Also - forget the 'boyfriend' style, just go straight for the men's section - they cost less and fit better, which I don't fully understand how is possible. Men's White Oxford Shirt from Gap (for reference, I wear a small). Also eyeing this buffalo check flannel, because winter.
Because it has a cult following for taming unruly brows and mine have a mind of their own. Boy Brow by Glossier. Mine are pretty bold on their own so I wouldn't be looking for anything more than clear, but for ladies looking for a little extra definition, it comes in three other shades.


Because although makeup is far from my forte, I've lately become obsessed with watching Katie Jane Hughes on Instagram and she has me convinced that I need some shimmery shadow. This palette by Tarte seems like it could be a good option for starters.


Because even though it's made for kids, I think it would be a total delight at our next dinner party. Giant USA Coloring Roll from Omy.
Because it's about time to retire some of our wine-stained, washing-machine-pilled napkins that have carried us through dinner parties for the last decade. This chambray set seems sturdy and affordable (so you don't hesitate to use it to mop up a spilled glass of wine) and like it could play well with a variety of other styles we have on hand. Chambray Napkins from Amazon. I'm also loving the subtle edging on these sets from Fennco Styles and Wayfair.


Because the aforementioned Paris Platter from Mud isn't exactly friendly to anyone's budget and I can't seem to get my hands on enough serving pieces, this beautiful matte black bowl scratches the something new itch. Low Serving Bowl from Year & Day (a really cool company loaded with table-ready gear at great prices - their matte gold serving set would also make an excellent gift).

Because even though the word choices above are 100% not me - this t-shirt pop up design is totally customizable. Pick your personal ingredients and percentages and feel good knowing 100% of proceeds go to the Ronald McDonald House. I'm probably some mixture of Know It All, Pizza Please and Getting Shit Done. This would be a fun exercise for everyone you know. Limited edition I AM DKNY Tee.
Because earrings are definitely my jewelry of choice (in addition to my Shinola watch) - and I gravitate towards minimal pairs that are a little unusual. Always gold. Sia Stud Earrings from Soko - I also love these and these (also from Soko) and these unusual climbers


Because my life is all about planning - literally my personal and professional passion - and I've always preferred analog for tracking certain things. Also 2018 has taught me that if I pour all of my energy and organization into my work, there isn't a lot left over at the end of the day. I need to make space in my life for the things and people I love the most, and I feel like writing that down is a good place to start. There are loads of productivity and passion planners in the world, and some articles that do a great job of breaking down which one is right for you. I'm interested in this 90 day targeted book from Savor Life because that feels like a great timespan for changing habits and driving focus. My Next 90 Days by Savor Life.


Because after picking up a suede pair of mules this summer, I hardly took them off. The shoes I didn't know I needed. Really loving this congnac colored pair from Soludos. Venetian Mule from Soludos. I also have a serious crush on these.


Because it really is a winter weather essential, either tucked in the bottom of the bed or sitting in my lap while I work next to the drafty windows in our house. The radiant warmth somehow beats any electric blanket or heating pad, and I love how as you get warmer, it cools down, so you aren't waking up overheated in the middle of the night. Mine tragically sprung a leak after years of service earlier this spring. The Attmu bottle is highly rated on Amazon and comes with a cable knit cover, but this sheepskin cover (no bottle included) definitely kicks the snuggle factor up.


Finally, because my dream life involves having one every week (or at least every month). A massage. I will of course take whatever I can get here, but the note I always follow as a giver of spa gift certificates is to make it convenient or make it luxurious (amazing if it can be both), I feel like recipients are happy to travel to the Four Seasons, but equally appreciated is a smaller boutique spa around the corner from their office, or where they live. A small boutique spot 30 minutes away is never the right route.
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Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Gift Guide: What We're Giving the Girls


Although I love seeking out fun and unusual gifts-for my closest friends and family, I often turn to things I own and love. It seems like there's a better chance of success with something tried and true than a gamble on something new. So what follows is a list of a few of my favorite things with some new additions for the ladies on your list. Consider this a 'no-fail' set of daily luxuries, travel necessities and small treats that you may also want to gift yourself.
Because even though summer feels like a long, long way away, she's bound to have warm weather travels before then and these are bound to be her new favorites. Ugly cute and oh so comfortable (plus waterproof to boot) Arizona Essentials from Birkenstock.




The lipstick I can't stop buying (and a gift guide repeat). The most gorgeous colors and a great moisturizing feel that always goes on smooth. As an owner of Stardust, Electra & Royal, I can recommend them all - or stick with the 'never-fail neutral' that is their original shade, Undone from Kosas.


Because I picked up this dry oil on my way through duty-free in Charles De Gaulle earlier this year after reading about it in The Strategist, and I'm hooked. It smells amazing works everywhere and somehow leaves you feeling more glamorous and glowing. Nuxe Huile Prodigiuese available from All Beauty (or your next swing through an international airport).
Because it's not only the perfect winter evening activity (accompanied by wine and roaring fire) the final results are so pretty, they're worth framing. Geode Puzzle by Nervous System available at Uncommon Goods.


Because I look forward to pulling mine out as soon as the temperatures drop (and I have several friends that feel similarly). The best furry couch blanket. Luxe Fur Throw from Restoration Hardware.

Because this looks like a good thing for those with a more regular office situation than me - for a fresh start to a new year of bringing her lunch to work, a sweet & sleek ceramic bowl with built in lid. Ready for all the grain bowls and salads her resolutions entail.  Porter Lunch Bowl by W&P


Because the holidays are the perfect time for a slightly splurgy sweater. And what could be more cozy than this waffle weave number from Everlane? This swingy silhouette is going to look great on everyone from grandma to your teenage cousin. It may be worth grabbing one of these for yourself. Cashmere Waffle Square Turtleneck from Everlane.
Because there's something about these mid-size acetate hoops that's feeling very fresh. All the different tortoiseshell designs seem like they would go with everything and work on anyone. Kate Hoops from Shop Machete Franco on Etsy. (also really loving this pair)


Because who doesn't like to dabble in a little future forecasting? Especially one that involves pasta? A riff on tarot: Pocket Fortunes from Individual Medley.



Because I LOVE mine. And if anyone thinks they are not acceptable work pants, they are wrong. Headlands Hybrid Cargo Tight from Athleta. 

Because it's the perfect stocking stuffer size to introduce all of your family to my favorite condiment. This + pizza = bliss. Mike's Hot Honey Travel Size Pack available on Amazon.


Because, as the grateful recipient of a previous version of this machine, I can attest that it's the thing you never knew you needed. Whether you have an espresso machine or make coffee in a french press (or like hot chocolate), there is no doubt that this compact milk-heating magician is going to change your life, or at least your morning beverage. Aerocinno 3 by Nespresso, available on sale at Williams and Sonoma.


Because it makes a nice pairing with the above and there's a mug to match everyone's style from whimsical to natural, and vintage to travel-proof - totally streamlined or sweet and simple . I love the designs from Fringe Studio like this one and their feminist series.

Because you might as well finish up this theme with what Serious Eats claims is the best brand of gourmet drinking chocolate - and if the recipient would prefer something less holiday-themed, don't miss the spiced offering that includes cinnamon and chilies. Peppermint Drinking Chocolate from Christopher Elbow.



Because it is the hair wonder product. Any cut, any style, anytime - it's like dry shampoo, but if dry shampoo was made of hair transforming magic. Bonus: smells like heaven. Just be ready for her to be mad that you started an addiction. Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray available on Amazon.


Because one of the best things about staying at hotels is the endless supply of washcloths - and not caring about covering them in eyeliner. Bring that freedom home with a set for her.  Makeup Washcloths by Weezie Towels. Or for a little less - this set from the Turkish Towel Company. Finally, this is a also an interesting new take on the good old washcloth.

Because 2018 was my year of developing a skincare routine and this was one of my favorite discoveries. Stick it in her stocking for a refining cleanse gentle enough for sensitive skin. Low pH Morning Gel Cleanser from Corsx available on Amazon.
Because in addition to finding my beloved cleanser - I also loved this set of travel sized essentials from Drunk Elephant as an opportunity to test drive some of their pricier products. Skincare gift sets abound for the holidays, so there are plenty of other brands and price points to get her started on a skincare regimen of her own. The Littles by Drunk Elephant available from Sephora. This set from Sunday Riley is on my list and K Beauty enthusiasts may be interested in this set from Soko Glam.



Because I stand by my theory that socks are always good presents (who wants to buy themselves socks?) and I own and love this set and several others in the series. Casual Crew Socks from Target.  (my other favorites are these with the bees!)


Because I haven't been the best reader this year - but this one was a standout. Non-fiction that reads like a thriller. Bad Blood available on Amazon. Other non-fiction reads I enjoyed this year: Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI, I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer,  and Dopesick: Dealers, Doctors and the Drug Company that Addicted America. If non-fiction isn't her jam, and she still hasn't read them, it's high time to pick up the Neopolitan Novels or, the absolutely charming Less.


Because I adore my wooden cheeseboards and this simple set will have any aspiring hostess ready in a flash, from chips and dip to charcuterie and olives (or in our house, cornichons). Teakwood Serving Duo from Leif.

Because the double hinge makes all the difference - seriously, I had no idea. Pulltaps Double-Hinged Waiter's Wine Key available on Amazon.


Because this will take her cookie and birthday cake game to the next level - an eye-popping assortment of spectacular sprinkles. Plus, if for some reason you can't find her signature shade, a custom blend is always an option. Blessed Sprinkle Blend from Sprinkle Pop.

Because although I promise this isn't a sponsored post from Athleta, my closet is rapidly approaching total saturation. I own this in three colors and multiple sizes, and I may be about to buy another because they ARE ON SALE. So soft and cozy. Criss Cross Sweatshirt from Athleta.

Because I don't think there's such a thing as too many fancy candles. You burn them, then you need more. I love this refreshing scent that I picked up in a gift shop on the Oregon coast and was later delighted to find again back in DC at Whole Foods. You can also order them online. Grapefruit Oleander Candle from Illume. Other candle loves: Voluspa Baltic Amber, Capri Blue Volcano (Anthropologie in a jar), Henri Bendel Firewood and the luxury option, Le Labo Santal 26.

Because even though it isn't as chic as this tortoiseshell lighter I've been eyeing, the thought of never having to buy a new lighter for candles again is incredibly attractive. This flexible lighter recharges via USB, is supposedly easier for elderly hands to use and can light up to 500 candles on a single charge. Pair it with a fancy candle and consider Grandma's gift sorted. Ronxs Electric Arc Lighter available on Amazon.


Because it's so great, this may be its third appearance on the guide. A timeless, richly textured leather travel set that comes in a series of delicious shades. I've often carried mine as a clutch. Leather Travel Case Set from Cuyana.


Finally, because my annual subscription is worth its weigh in gold and has allowed me to snag many many amazing vacation deals. Scott's Cheap Flights Premium. 



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Monday, December 10, 2018

Gift Guides: 2018




It probably feels like these weren't going to happen this year - at least that's how I've been feeling. 2018 has been busy, not in the usual "How are you? Oh good, busy" sense, but in the truly all-in, no down-time, all travel, all-the-time sense. My biggest wish for 2019: more time with friends and family. 

Still - it's a lucky space to be in, and there's a lot of good work to be done. 

To maintain some sanity, I'll be taking a more pared back approach to the guides this year based on what we're giving and hoping to get (warning family: spoilers ahead). So keep your eyes peeled over the next few days for a handful of posts. 


Additionally - don't miss my favorite annual do good gift guide from The New York Times' Nicholas Kristof, and to help those in California that are still very much in need after the wildfires, this article is a good resource.

In the meantime, here's the index from the last several years, many of these gifts are still available, and when they aren't, the shops that sell them have loads of other great offerings: 


2017 Guides

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