Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Gift Guide: What We're Giving the Girls


Although I love seeking out fun and unusual gifts-for my closest friends and family, I often turn to things I own and love. It seems like there's a better chance of success with something tried and true than a gamble on something new. So what follows is a list of a few of my favorite things with some new additions for the ladies on your list. Consider this a 'no-fail' set of daily luxuries, travel necessities and small treats that you may also want to gift yourself.
Because even though summer feels like a long, long way away, she's bound to have warm weather travels before then and these are bound to be her new favorites. Ugly cute and oh so comfortable (plus waterproof to boot) Arizona Essentials from Birkenstock.




The lipstick I can't stop buying (and a gift guide repeat). The most gorgeous colors and a great moisturizing feel that always goes on smooth. As an owner of Stardust, Electra & Royal, I can recommend them all - or stick with the 'never-fail neutral' that is their original shade, Undone from Kosas.


Because I picked up this dry oil on my way through duty-free in Charles De Gaulle earlier this year after reading about it in The Strategist, and I'm hooked. It smells amazing works everywhere and somehow leaves you feeling more glamorous and glowing. Nuxe Huile Prodigiuese available from All Beauty (or your next swing through an international airport).
Because it's not only the perfect winter evening activity (accompanied by wine and roaring fire) the final results are so pretty, they're worth framing. Geode Puzzle by Nervous System available at Uncommon Goods.


Because I look forward to pulling mine out as soon as the temperatures drop (and I have several friends that feel similarly). The best furry couch blanket. Luxe Fur Throw from Restoration Hardware.

Because this looks like a good thing for those with a more regular office situation than me - for a fresh start to a new year of bringing her lunch to work, a sweet & sleek ceramic bowl with built in lid. Ready for all the grain bowls and salads her resolutions entail.  Porter Lunch Bowl by W&P


Because the holidays are the perfect time for a slightly splurgy sweater. And what could be more cozy than this waffle weave number from Everlane? This swingy silhouette is going to look great on everyone from grandma to your teenage cousin. It may be worth grabbing one of these for yourself. Cashmere Waffle Square Turtleneck from Everlane.
Because there's something about these mid-size acetate hoops that's feeling very fresh. All the different tortoiseshell designs seem like they would go with everything and work on anyone. Kate Hoops from Shop Machete Franco on Etsy. (also really loving this pair)


Because who doesn't like to dabble in a little future forecasting? Especially one that involves pasta? A riff on tarot: Pocket Fortunes from Individual Medley.



Because I LOVE mine. And if anyone thinks they are not acceptable work pants, they are wrong. Headlands Hybrid Cargo Tight from Athleta

Because it's the perfect stocking stuffer size to introduce all of your family to my favorite condiment. This + pizza = bliss. Mike's Hot Honey Travel Size Pack available on Amazon.


Because, as the grateful recipient of a previous version of this machine, I can attest that it's the thing you never knew you needed. Whether you have an espresso machine or make coffee in a french press (or like hot chocolate), there is no doubt that this compact milk-heating magician is going to change your life, or at least your morning beverage. Aerocinno 3 by Nespresso, available on sale at Williams and Sonoma.


Because it makes a nice pairing with the above and there's a mug to match everyone's style from whimsical to natural, and vintage to travel-proof - totally streamlined or sweet and simple . I love the designs from Fringe Studio like this one and their feminist series.

Because you might as well finish up this theme with what Serious Eats claims is the best brand of gourmet drinking chocolate - and if the recipient would prefer something less holiday-themed, don't miss the spiced offering that includes cinnamon and chilies. Peppermint Drinking Chocolate from Christopher Elbow.



Because it is the hair wonder product. Any cut, any style, anytime - it's like dry shampoo, but if dry shampoo was made of hair transforming magic. Bonus: smells like heaven. Just be ready for her to be mad that you started an addiction. Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray available on Amazon.


Because one of the best things about staying at hotels is the endless supply of washcloths - and not caring about covering them in eyeliner. Bring that freedom home with a set for her.  Makeup Washcloths by Weezie Towels. Or for a little less - this set from the Turkish Towel Company. Finally, this is a also an interesting new take on the good old washcloth.

Because 2018 was my year of developing a skincare routine and this was one of my favorite discoveries. Stick it in her stocking for a refining cleanse gentle enough for sensitive skin. Low pH Morning Gel Cleanser from Corsx available on Amazon.
Because in addition to finding my beloved cleanser - I also loved this set of travel sized essentials from Drunk Elephant as an opportunity to test drive some of their pricier products. Skincare gift sets abound for the holidays, so there are plenty of other brands and price points to get her started on a skincare regimen of her own. The Littles by Drunk Elephant available from Sephora. This set from Sunday Riley is on my list and K Beauty enthusiasts may be interested in this set from Soko Glam.



Because I stand by my theory that socks are always good presents (who wants to buy themselves socks?) and I own and love this set and several others in the series. Casual Crew Socks from Target.  (my other favorites are these with the bees!)


Because I haven't been the best reader this year - but this one was a standout. Non-fiction that reads like a thriller. Bad Blood available on Amazon. Other non-fiction reads I enjoyed this year: Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI, I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer,  and Dopesick: Dealers, Doctors and the Drug Company that Addicted America. If non-fiction isn't her jam, and she still hasn't read them, it's high time to pick up the Neopolitan Novels or, the absolutely charming Less.


Because I adore my wooden cheeseboards and this simple set will have any aspiring hostess ready in a flash, from chips and dip to charcuterie and olives (or in our house, cornichons). Teakwood Serving Duo from Leif.

Because the double hinge makes all the difference - seriously, I had no idea. Pulltaps Double-Hinged Waiter's Wine Key available on Amazon.


Because this will take her cookie and birthday cake game to the next level - an eye-popping assortment of spectacular sprinkles. Plus, if for some reason you can't find her signature shade, a custom blend is always an option. Blessed Sprinkle Blend from Sprinkle Pop.

Because although I promise this isn't a sponsored post from Athleta, my closet is rapidly approaching total saturation. I own this in three colors and multiple sizes, and I may be about to buy another because they ARE ON SALE. So soft and cozy. Criss Cross Sweatshirt from Athleta.

Because I don't think there's such a thing as too many fancy candles. You burn them, then you need more. I love this refreshing scent that I picked up in a gift shop on the Oregon coast and was later delighted to find again back in DC at Whole Foods. You can also order them online. Grapefruit Oleander Candle from Illume. Other candle loves: Voluspa Baltic Amber, Capri Blue Volcano (Anthropologie in a jar), Henri Bendel Firewood and the luxury option, Le Labo Santal 26.

Because even though it isn't as chic as this tortoiseshell lighter I've been eyeing, the thought of never having to buy a new lighter for candles again is incredibly attractive. This flexible lighter recharges via USB, is supposedly easier for elderly hands to use and can light up to 500 candles on a single charge. Pair it with a fancy candle and consider Grandma's gift sorted. Ronxs Electric Arc Lighter available on Amazon.


Because it's so great, this may be its third appearance on the guide. A timeless, richly textured leather travel set that comes in a series of delicious shades. I've often carried mine as a clutch. Leather Travel Case Set from Cuyana.


Finally, because my annual subscription is worth its weigh in gold and has allowed me to snag many many amazing vacation deals. Scott's Cheap Flights Premium



Monday, December 10, 2018

Gift Guides: 2018




It probably feels like these weren't going to happen this year - at least that's how I've been feeling. 2018 has been busy, not in the usual "How are you? Oh good, busy" sense, but in the truly all-in, no down-time, all travel, all-the-time sense. My biggest wish for 2019: more time with friends and family. 

Still - it's a lucky space to be in, and there's a lot of good work to be done. 

To maintain some sanity, I'll be taking a more pared back approach to the guides this year based on what we're giving and hoping to get (warning family: spoilers ahead). So keep your eyes peeled over the next few days for a handful of posts. 


Additionally - don't miss my favorite annual do good gift guide from The New York Times' Nicholas Kristof, and to help those in California that are still very much in need after the wildfires, this article is a good resource.

In the meantime, here's the index from the last several years, many of these gifts are still available, and when they aren't, the shops that sell them have loads of other great offerings: 


2017 Guides

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

Gift Guide: The Bon Vivant


He's not about to let anything get in the way of a good time.  The life of every party, a lover of the finer things and, of course, your ride or die. Treat him this holiday with clever gifts and little luxuries that promise fun to come.


For busy days: a playful and punchy watch inspired by Timex archives from the 1970s. Blackjack Watch from Tom Snyder and Timex.


For keeping track: a novel little notebook from the shop that brought you 'People I want to Punch in the Face': 27th Street Press on Etsy or for something a little more highbrow.


For keeping his everyday carry neat and organized: a sleek black metal valet tray by DOIY Design available on Cool Material.
For running around town: everyone's favorite new all-wool, super comfy, washing machine-friendly sneaker from Allbirds


For documents - stamps with German insults and vulgarities from The Stampographer also available in Japanese and French.


For odds and ends: a funny folding silicon box at home on his desk, nightstand or bathroom counter. Phold from Design Life Kids


For tightening a screw, trimming a loose thread or opening a beer, all while keeping his collar looking sharp: a set of titanium multi-tool collar stays from Exuvius.

For home decor, and ego boosting. Legend Candle by Damselfly available at Luxe Gifts

For taking full advantage of his new phone's wireless charging capabilities, and looking good while doing it: The Wireless Charging Pad from Grovemade.


For fancy feet: a monthly subscription to round out his sock drawer from Sock Fancy

For Fridays: futuristic jeans made of a technical material that sheds water, resists stains, fights odors and bounces back from whatever he puts them through. Slim Dungarees from Outlier


For sophisticated tastes: an unusual fudge made with condensed, sweetened milk, and dehydrated blue cheese from Rogue creamery. A definitely different choice. Albatross Fudge from Dude, Sweet Chocolate - for some of their more mainstream offerings don't miss When Pigs Fly or Hanoi Fudge.


For mules, juleps, punches and snow cones: a silicon ice cube tray that makes flaky crushed ice a breeze. Crushed Ice Tray from Peak Ice Works on Amazon.

For drinks that call for a different sort of ice, one that makes it's own cocktail as it melts. Blood Orange and Ginger infused Ice Cubes to make the perfect Old Fashioned from Herb & Lou's


For the perfect finish on any cocktail he can think of: a multipurpose Bartender's Knife from W&P Design


Or for when he's not tending bar, and because all the kids have them these days: a fidget spinner pocket knife from Meteorite.


For indulging while doing good: a bundle of delicious farmed North American Oysters from Real Oyster Cult whose mission is deeply tied to sustainability and protecting the ocean.
Also for indulging, while protecting his tie: a screen-printed linen bib for BBQ Nights. Swine Bib from Sir | Madam


A closet classic and a tie worth protecting: No. 58 Black Silk Tie from Mr. Day, a cheaper dupe here or an even cheaper, more subversive take here.

For world travelers or wannabes: a collection of design-conscious guides for dream destinations. Wallpaper City Guides Box Set on Mr. Porter.

For keeping his playlist rolling, even without his phone: a small device for taking Spotify anywhere, with five hours of battery life, bluetooth capabilities and a weather resistant finish, just clip on ang go.. Mighty
For correspondence: YOLO Stationary from Terrapin Stationers


For a pool accessory that Taylor Swift's gang has nothing on: Ridiculous Inflatable Swan Thing by David Shrigley available at Artware.
Because he's dripping with it: Panache Hat from Maison Labiche


For schlepping the essentials to the office, the gym or off to a weekend away and looking good while doing it: a super organized sling pack from Aer.







For a real life take on a favorite app game: Space Team by Timber & Bolt available on Amazon don't miss this expansion pack

For a design-centric take on a classic game: a riff on Liar's Dice, Mr. Pip's Double Cross.
For making life a game: four activity-filled dice for creating spontaneous itineraries. Do Something Dice from W&P Design.


For reforming his ways: Swear Jar from Good Fucking Design Advice.


For never reforming and because mine gives me joy every. single. day. Trump Keytag by Various Projects.


For watching the game: a retro sweater take on his team of choice. Pennant Sweaters by Hillflint - don't miss their cardigans or college-geared offerings either.


For tracking fitness, sleep and stress all without the bracelet: A set of adhesive tags to add to most frequently worn clothing for deeper insights with no charging, remembering or wearing. Health Tags by Spire.


For laundry day and working through some aggression: Laundry Punching Bag from SuckUK


For learning to shoot like Curry, cook like Ramsay or write like Sorkin, or maybe all of the above: a digital classroom experience with his idol. Single courses or a year-long subscription from Masterclass.


For those rare occasions when he feels like staying in: a plush hooded bathrobe by Wings & Horns from Ace Hotel
Finally, for being up for anything: a gaming system that goes with him and all the new Mario his heart desires. Nintendo Switch, available on Amazon.